tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post3879580762137882455..comments2024-01-24T11:41:28.022+00:00Comments on A Cuban In London: Sunday Mornings: Coffee, Reflections and MusicA Cuban In Londonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16423293358605007539noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-39429952633054865332014-01-25T12:19:32.463+00:002014-01-25T12:19:32.463+00:00You are absolutely right. People are not good at ...You are absolutely right. People are not good at solitude these days--they do not have practice at it--they have a weird loneliness that they fill up electronically and then that keeps them connecting with the real life around them, even though it is connection that they so want. Agh. Very thought-provoking. k. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-32727280976944860072014-01-25T02:04:40.810+00:002014-01-25T02:04:40.810+00:00I dont have any problema in be alone, more, I love...I dont have any problema in be alone, more, I love to be alone sometimes:)))))besosGloria Bakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03055543111865966546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-64860664299612718362014-01-23T23:25:56.268+00:002014-01-23T23:25:56.268+00:00If I were better edducated, I would have written t...If I were better edducated, I would have written too instead of two.Snowbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00436087215476479042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-39367272771621485942014-01-23T23:17:46.850+00:002014-01-23T23:17:46.850+00:00I've never been to England or two Cuba, but I ...I've never been to England or two Cuba, but I enjoy your writing and would love to talk to you about your thoughts about my country--the US--which, I believe, has done your country wrong.Snowbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00436087215476479042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-49091679810836255122014-01-23T21:20:15.509+00:002014-01-23T21:20:15.509+00:00Thanks to everyone for your kind comments.
Greeti...Thanks to everyone for your kind comments.<br /><br />Greetings from London.A Cuban In Londonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16423293358605007539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-30245572042893012972014-01-23T15:51:32.877+00:002014-01-23T15:51:32.877+00:00I think most of us need a balance, with time to ou...I think most of us need a balance, with time to ourselves and time spent with other people. Introverts need more time alone, extroverts need more time in company, but we all need both. <br /><br />The problem i would see if everyone suddenly decided to live by themselves is that we would need to build even more houses on our already very theatened green belt and there would go the countrysideCrafty Green Poethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02486633917197181851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-13037594040865409542014-01-22T19:44:05.850+00:002014-01-22T19:44:05.850+00:00good post I couldn't be on my own and tagging ...good post I couldn't be on my own and tagging this for #agchat for the folks who post felfies to see ha chow and chatterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04225995063075911644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-17550455205712398742014-01-22T18:59:10.003+00:002014-01-22T18:59:10.003+00:00That image is a perfect illustration for your thou...That image is a perfect illustration for your thoughts. Relyn Lawsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01389583730002062714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-16267107019152626822014-01-22T15:10:47.758+00:002014-01-22T15:10:47.758+00:00There is a tv serie going here right now about a m...There is a tv serie going here right now about a man wanting to live without money. Spending his day walking and begging for food and shelter. Pretty hard to do nowadays. NatureFootstephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01340635075481959029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-37059911319760828502014-01-21T13:46:04.327+00:002014-01-21T13:46:04.327+00:00Interesting essays: both Maitland's and yours....Interesting essays: both Maitland's and yours. I can see why an author would crave solitude for her work as I need that during the day, but at night and on weekends I enjoy having my family and friends pull me back into the real world. I don't mind a week on my own, especially when I have a lot of writing to do, but more than that makes me lonely. Good point of yours on the problems of living isolation as we age.<br /><br />The town I live in has very little public transport - just a bus a day and in the past couple of years we got 3 trains a day but the timing is for commuters. You need a car to get out of town or to buy groceries. We bought a house in town, instead of on the water or in the woods, so that I can walk to the shops and to houses of friends.Sarah Laurencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00423008641739156182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-72708068573592112942014-01-21T04:43:08.684+00:002014-01-21T04:43:08.684+00:00I think we humans are social people and most of us...I think we humans are social people and most of us wouldn't do well living alone and isolated. Having said that, being alone and having time alone with oneself is essential.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-49276546966894564102014-01-21T01:00:25.977+00:002014-01-21T01:00:25.977+00:00You certainly picked an interesting topic, CiL, an...You certainly picked an interesting topic, CiL, and one which just came up for me during the past few days through re-reading, "Centennial," by James Michener. Loneliness, especially in terms of exploration and settlement of the American West, is one of its central themes. And, I have been a "student" of the isolation created during Nineteenth Century settlement of the Great Plains. My reading has included novels, diaries and assorted accounts about the era. Any number of suicides and instances of madness are recorded as a result of the isolation over periods of months.<br /><br />On the other side of the coin, speaking as someone who has spent much of his adult life living in the country a mile or two from the nearest neighbor, I have discovered a general consensus among people who do this, do it precisely for the reason of preferring life that way. "We" prefer a degree of isolation.<br /><br />Robert Frost wrote: "Good fences make good neighbors." I would add, a mile or two between neighbors works equally well.Fram Actualhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01540773153894050197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-877068123341284352014-01-20T23:52:43.491+00:002014-01-20T23:52:43.491+00:00Hi! I have a recent firsthand if disjointed exper...Hi! I have a recent firsthand if disjointed experience of this as I moved this year from New York City to a rather remote place in the mountains in New York State. By remote, I mean that my nearest neighbor is about a mile and a half away, and there are often very few people in this particular valley for a host of reasons. That said, I travel to the City for three days a week--midtown Manhattan -and even up here I am on the computer a great deal because of the various work I do-- it is certainly interesting. Time passes in a much different way. You want to get up early and live more in sync with the light as it is really difficult to be out after dark--no street lights. I mean I do take walks i the dark sometimes, but I am always half-worried about a predator - a bear--<br /><br />But it is so beautiful. <br /><br />There's another loneliness of the spirit that we all seem to have - a wish for acknowledgement-- another topic perhaps. <br /><br />Thanks much for the interesting article and your kind visits. I've been a bit under the mental weather lately and doing a great deal of uncomfortable work so they have meant a great deal to me. K. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-58237892475990189242014-01-20T23:31:50.999+00:002014-01-20T23:31:50.999+00:00Many thanks for your comments. I really welcome th...Many thanks for your comments. I really welcome this variety of opinions.<br /><br />Greetings from London.A Cuban In Londonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16423293358605007539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-65234552779942509052014-01-20T20:58:35.843+00:002014-01-20T20:58:35.843+00:00There is living alone and there is isolation or th...There is living alone and there is isolation or the life of a recluse. I live alone but I am in a city and so see people most every day. However, there are days that I do not go outside, do not see people, and do not get lonely. However, there are never days I am not on the computer. I prefer the structure of blogs where I can say what I feel, read what you think, and then trade comments. In real life, people are so very all over the place and scattered. I think a lot of farmers are this way in that they like being isolated in that it is easier but they still need some contact with other humans. Rubye Jackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02511953177053448513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-33990158898381758052014-01-20T18:45:39.998+00:002014-01-20T18:45:39.998+00:00I will read the article by Sara Maitland with grea...I will read the article by Sara Maitland with great interest. I consider myself a minimalist but to live in near solitude may not be for me. Especially with no internet of which I'm addicted. David Cranmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04749857752139212888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-12150975797103091812014-01-20T04:46:52.693+00:002014-01-20T04:46:52.693+00:00ha.. some good questions... i usually have no prob...ha.. some good questions... i usually have no problems being alone, traveling alone or doing something on my own..but then... i'm drawn to people like a moth to the light and i think we need each other..also as mirrors for ourselves..Claudiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03011763027311966186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-18786086437492540802014-01-20T01:21:01.633+00:002014-01-20T01:21:01.633+00:00i think i could exist on my own...but i really thi...i think i could exist on my own...but i really think we were created to live life in community and there would be a certain energy lacking in a solitary life...there are def days that it is appealing...ha...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-72217477447023515862014-01-19T20:28:29.288+00:002014-01-19T20:28:29.288+00:00Living in isolation is good in a way, as long as y...Living in isolation is good in a way, as long as you aren't too far out in the woodsPat Hatthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07745293224202430152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-69599816925964947332014-01-19T19:47:30.009+00:002014-01-19T19:47:30.009+00:00Fascinating. I need time to myself. Every day. ...Fascinating. I need time to myself. Every day. A time to regroup, a time to focus, time to simply be.<br />I lived (without transport) in the country for a number of years and was alone often - and never lonely.<br />Isn't it wonderful that we have choices (most of us) about what meets our needs and/or desires.Elephant's Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650565833097914052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-54939906615870975682014-01-19T19:06:57.971+00:002014-01-19T19:06:57.971+00:00I suppose there is a difference in choosing to liv...I suppose there is a difference in choosing to live alone when you could just as well live in a town. Farmers can't do that, but Sara Maitland could, I suppose. I am not quite as puzzled about her as I am about nuns who choose to enter an enclosed order and sacrifice their lives to praying for the world. <br /><br />I'm totally a city person, although I do love to be in the country too (for a holiday). If I am feeling a bit down, I like to mix with the crowds all rushing around in the centre of London. Jenny Woolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16881781466502273314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-31368776308908354952014-01-19T17:20:04.121+00:002014-01-19T17:20:04.121+00:00Me considero una persona solitaria, pero no llegar...Me considero una persona solitaria, pero no llegaría a vivir aislada de las conexiones como la televisión, teléfono e internet, hay que amar mucho la naturaleza y disfrutar de ella.<br /><br />Que tengas un feliz domingo. Mari-Pi-Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00661886117860375651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-4406292928620080102014-01-19T15:36:48.307+00:002014-01-19T15:36:48.307+00:00Certainly made me think...are we slowly becoming a...Certainly made me think...are we slowly becoming a planet of virtual lives?<br />I was sitting in a pub last week, just observing people around me. Only one very young couple were sitting gazing into each other's eyes and really talking. Everyone else seemed to be busy on their mobile phones...texting, playing games etc.<br />Are we losing the ability to communicate face-to-face?<br />Will we eventually lose the ability to, even if we want to?<br /><br />Have you noticed how people only very rarely seem to hug each other these days?<br />It's almost as if we are being taken over by technology itself, to become IT'S tool...scary! :/Ygrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00300519608303898969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-83642588715508990682014-01-19T12:09:22.340+00:002014-01-19T12:09:22.340+00:00Isolation, in the age of the internet, is differen...Isolation, in the age of the internet, is different from what we used to define as isolation. Those who are ostensibly connected withdraw into their smart phones. I’m thinking of the family I saw at a nearby table at a restaurant I recently visited. All four were physically there, but not talking to each other. Instead, they were focused on their phones. Then there are those, like the farmers you cite, who are physically isolated but virtually closely connected. I worry more about the first group than the second. When live contact is eschewed, I wonder if that ends up by depersonalizing people, turning them into beguiling bit streams without true human warmth. Judith Mercadohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13739476600999112092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165773290907101242.post-11263785548054801742014-01-19T11:54:58.943+00:002014-01-19T11:54:58.943+00:00Very thought provoking post - lots of interesting ...Very thought provoking post - lots of interesting ideas about the nature of solitude - and I must check out those felfies! Greetings from a very wet and rainy NiceCatherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06255193476024745869noreply@blogger.com